How your higher EQ can help in closing the deal

We have to agree that courage is the very centre of the problem when it comes to closing a deal. The thing that destroys courage is the lack of confidence. The thing that brings no confidence is the thinking and associated emotions around what people might say when your try to close the deal. Your mind says ‘NO don’t call, it will be embarrassing, you will get rejected, you will annoy the client, they might think you are desperate’ and on it goes. So know you  focus on how YOU will feel if you get rejected. You haven’t even made the call yet and already you are in a state of emotional deadlock. This can also lead to your self-esteem and self-worth taking a tumble.

One of the EQ skills that will really help you is the skill of EMOTIONAL SELF-AWARENESS. Emotional Self-Awareness is the skill of perceiving and understanding one’s own feelings. Feelings influence decisions, behaviour and performance. Emotionally self-aware sales people are conscious of the role their feelings can play in these areas and are better equipped to manage this influence effectively. Sales people who are very high  in this skill are likely to pay close attention to their feelings at work and have a profound sense and knowledge of themselves. They are likely to be very connected with their inner values and beliefs. When this type of emotional information is combined with facts and technical information, people think and make for expansive, creative and well thought-out decisions.  Closing the deal then becomes a conquered mountain rather than a mountain to climb.

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About Marcus van Wyk - Inspire Motivate Challenge

Marcus is a leading and legendary South African and African Speaker, Teacher, and Assessor in the science of Emotional Intelligence for leadership, and workplace human development. He has 35 years experience which includes executive and non-executive directorships in South Africa and the UK. He is regarded as one of the most influential speakers on the African continent in regards to organisational and human development. Call 0828554383 or email or contact Karin Clark at 0824680221 or
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